Hey all u guys out there, im new here

and im pretty much a retard when it comes to technical stuff with the com.
Now i'll get straight to the point,
my laptop is pretty screwed up, each time i try to clean it up when it gets full of junks and viruses and spywares(restoring or formatting, i THINK im cleaning my laptop up at least), it just goes even slower than before, and ever since the second last time i format my laptop, i start having some graphics problem.
There was once it started off with installation error right at the beginning when i use the CD that comes when i buy the laptop (im not sure if it was the last time or second last time when i format). But anyway, i tried installing some driver stuff from ATI's website(actually i have no idea what im installing/updating at all too).
One thing i do know is the catalyst thingy doesnt work for my laptop too. So now comes the main problem, everytime i try to play some slightly more graphically demanding stuff, usually those 3D stuff, there is like a time bomb ticking, and within the next 15-20min, my laptop will definitely turn off on its own. It's not a proper shut down, it is simply a sudden POOF, power gone.
During the second last time i formatted my laptop, this problem happened even when i play some old stuff like Warcraftlll, but it stopped after i mindlessly downloaded some ATI's stuff and installed them. Now it occurs almost all the time in games that were released within the last 2 years, chinese games, english games, mmorpgs, etc. And recently i tried to install silkroad online(mmorpg) cos the new european race is out, i downloaded this driver file that the website said is required to play SRO. and when i try to run this file and install, it gives me a couple of error. Im listing them down word for word, im typing while installing it.
1) INF error Video driver not found.
Only 1 option, press OK and.....
2)Setup was unable to complete the installation. Try to setup your display adapter with a standard VGA driver before running setup.
Only 1 option, press OK and....
the installation window closes.
So please tell me what should i do, im a total dumbass so i need a really step by step idiot proof guide lol. Here are some info about my com i hope is enough to help you guys determine the problem.
Operating System: Windows XP Professional (5.1, Build2600) Service Pack 2 (2600.xpsp_sp2_gdr.070227-2254)
Language: English (Regional Setting: English)
System Manufacturer: Acer, inc.
System Model: TravelMate 8100
BIOS: Phoenix NoteBIOS 4.0 Release 6.1
Processor: Intel(R) Pentium(R) M processor 2.00GHz
Memory: 1022MB RAM
Page File: 706MB used, 1752MB available
Windows Dir: C:\WINDOWS
DirectX Version: DirectX 9.0c (4.09.0000.0904)
DX Setup Parameters: Not found
DxDiag Version: 5.03.2600.2180 32bit Unicode
Card Name: ATI Mobility™ Radeon® X700