Ughh he said he never had to enter a password just started up each day single admin user no passwords windows just started, so I tried (blank) enter again but it doesn't work..
I told him without recovery disc 2, without a admin password, without a physical xp disc (i guess gateway puts the stuff on the hd and the recovery discs do the windows reinstall) I just said you'll need to call gateway for a set of recovery cds (if they even do that) or my suggestion was to go buy xp at a local store (best buy etc if they still even sell it), when does windows 7 come out, maybe that might be better for him. Also recommended a cheap usb external hard drive for backups!
But missing all those pieces to this puzzle as much as I wanna help and have tried different things for him my hands are kinda tied at this point even with the great help here...
All I know is I have my discs passwords etc all stored safe and sound with an external backup drive set to sync every night for my important data (and being paranoid I have hard data dvd copies of most of it too) so I have learned my lesson years ago, time for him to start taking it more serious if he doesn't want to be "out in the cold" nextime this happens.
Also recommended he burns some stuff to disc, and altho not guaranteed even if he did install a new os fresh i think he still might be able to recover a few pics or files using some of the recovery programs that are out there if they mean that much to him.
Thanks to all for the suggestions and ideas but I think even with the best of intentions of trying to help him he is gonna have to learn from this and start taking some steps to at least make sure he has all his stuff in order and or backed up for the next time this happens, and I did tell him it will happen again as we all know it will even to the best of us